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Killing the Fear Monster: Freedom for the Fearful-Avoidant: Heal the fear. Reclaim the connection. Rise with confidence.

by Robert Anderson Love Wins · Be The Change: Empowering Global Transformation

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Killing the Fear Monster is an 81-page book on relationships and emotional healing by Robert Anderson Love Wins, part of the Be The Change: Empowering Global Transformation series, published June 2, 2025. It's available on Amazon in Kindle, paperback, hardcover and audiobook.

Prices on Amazon as of Nov 13, 2026; check Amazon for the current price. Sold and shipped by Amazon.

81Pages
June 2, 2025Published
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Be The Change: Empowering Global TransformationSeries
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979-8286703555ISBN-13 (paperback)
Independently publishedPublisher
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Self-Help › Anxieties & PhobiasAmazon category

About this book

From the book's description on Amazon

✨ Heal the fear. Reclaim the connection. Rise with confidence.

Do you long for love but feel overwhelmed by intimacy? Do you crave connection but sabotage relationships when things get too real? If so, you may carry the traits of a fearful-avoidant attachment style—and you are not alone.

In this empowering guide, Killing the Fear Monster introduces you to the “Fear Giver”—the inner voice formed by trauma, abandonment, or inconsistent love—and gives you proven tools to quiet it, challenge it, and ultimately heal.

Grounded in CBT, NLP, and attachment theory, this book offers powerful techniques like:

  • 💭 Thought Records & Reframing to break fear loops
  • 🌀 Visualization and Anchoring to shift your emotional state
  • 💞 Inner Child Work and Parts Dialogue to build self-trust
  • 🔄 Real-life scenarios for applying tools in love, conflict, and connection
  • 🧠 A full workbook with journal prompts, affirmations & self-reflection exercises

Whether you’ve been ghosted, fear being “too much,” or struggle to express your needs, this guide shows you how to create secure love from the inside out.

This book is not about fixing you. It’s about freeing you.

💡 Perfect for readers healing from trauma, emotional neglect, or anxious-avoidant patterns.

🔐 Includes: Step-by-step exercises, real-life healing scripts, and a printable workbook to support your transformation.

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Who this book is for

In the book's own description:

  • It’s about freeing you. 💡 Perfect for readers healing from trauma, emotional neglect, or anxious-avoidant patterns. 🔐 Includes: Step-by-step exercises, real-life healing scripts, and a printable workbook to support your transformation.
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Frequently asked questions

What is Killing the Fear Monster about?

Do you long for love but feel overwhelmed by intimacy? Do you crave connection but sabotage relationships when things get too real?

What formats is it available in, and how much does it cost?

Kindle $8.99 · Paperback $19.95 · Hardcover $22.95 · Audiobook on Amazon (prices as of Nov 13, 2026; check Amazon for the current price).

How many pages is Killing the Fear Monster?

81 pages, according to Amazon's listing.

When was it published?

It was published on June 2, 2025; the paperback is independently published (ISBN-13 979-8286703555).

Is it part of a series?

Yes. It's part of the Be The Change: Empowering Global Transformation series, alongside 31 other books listed on this site.

Where should I start with Robert's books?

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